February 27, 2027
Saturday, February 27, 2027
Presidio Chapel
130 Fisher Loop
San Francisco, CA 94129
Ceremony 2:45PM
dinner & dancing to follow
RSVP
The wedding is a private event by invitation only. Not open to the public. Thank you.
FIRST MET
We met on our first day of high school, sitting at the same table in Algebra. We quickly became friends, though we weren’t especially close. A few years later, we ended up at the same table again in senior-year Statistics and this time, we couldn’t stop talking and laughing, so much so that our teacher often had to separate us.
FIRST “I LOVE YOU”
We became best friends, constantly reminding each other how much we loved one another, never realizing our friendship was slowly becoming something more.
FIRST BIG STEP
When Callie moved to Washington for college, we had to navigate long distance. Being apart made us realize just how much we missed being part of each other’s everyday lives and maybe that we were more than friends. One night, Elijah shared how he felt, and Callie admitted she felt the same.
FIRST KISS
We decided to take a chance on a relationship, knowing it might change our friendship forever. When the semester ended, Callie came back to San Francisco for a day, and we spent it together. Nervous but excited, we shared our first kiss and somehow, we both knew we had found something worth taking a chance on.
FIRST HOME
After college, Callie moved back to San Francisco. We moved into a tiny 450-square-foot apartment in Nob Hill, two weeks before the start of the pandemic. Little did we know we’d be spending a lot more time there than planned. Four apartments and six years later, we still love living together, thankfully, with a little more space.
THE BIG “YES”
For our 10-year anniversary, we spent the weekend in Half Moon Bay. After a perfect dinner, Elijah took Callie to a gorgeous misty cliffside, where we bundled up and talked about the past ten years and everything we had built together. Then, Elijah got down on one knee and asked Callie if she would marry him. She said yes.
LITTLE KNOWN FACT
We were born in the same hospital, just a little over six months apart 🙂
SF Air Travel Recommendations
San Francisco International Airport (SFO) 13 miles south of downtown San Francisco.
Oakland San Francisco Bay Airport (OAK) 21 miles east of San Francisco across the bay in the East Bay.
Getting Around in San Francisco
Wedding:
- There’s parking available onsite, but we encourage you to leave the car at home and enjoy the celebration! We’re offering rideshare vouchers to help get you home safely. Details for redeeming vouchers will be shared closer to the event.
Exploring San Francisco:
- You’re welcome to rent a car, but keep in mind that street parking can be limited in some neighborhoods, and certain hotels charge for overnight parking. For this reason, rideshare and public transportation are often the easiest ways to get around.
Fun Options:
- Waymo: A futuristic and relaxing way to get around San Francisco in a fully driverless car!
- Cable Cars: A historic San Francisco icon and a fun, scenic way to experience the city’s famous hills.
We would like to thank you for traveling to San Francisco to join us for our special day. It means the world to us. We have room blocks at discounted rates at three of our favorite boutique hotels, all of which are in close proximity to our venue in The Presidio neighborhood.
Hotel Zephyr - Fisherman's Wharf
Thoughtfully designed rooms with play areas and games for kids, plus cozy fire pits for everyone to enjoy.
Deadline to book with room block: 1/25/27
Click for the Foley / Totten Wedding Block
The Argonaut Hotel
Fisherman’s Wharf gem. Nautical-themed rooms featuring historic exposed brick and a full-service restaurant.
Deadline to book with room block: 1/13/27
Click for the Foley / Totten Wedding Block
Hotel Kabuki
Things To Do in San Francisco
San Francisco Activities
Green Apple Books
New and used books in all subject areas. Our favorite book store in all of San Francisco!
Blue Heron Lake
Strawberry Hill
One of SF’s best kept secrets within Golden Gate Park, stroll or rowboat around Blue Heron Lake (formally known as Stow Lake) and see the Chinese pagoda, right next to the Japanese Tea Garden!
Lands End Lookout
Our favorite date night activity is to grab burritos to go, park at a view of the water and picnic while watching the sunset.
Tunnel Top Park
This park offers sweeping views of the Golden Gate Bridge and has a unique nature-based playground, the Outpost Playground!
Dining & Entertainment
Underdogs Tres
A Foley / Milloy favorite, we love the Baja fish tacos + nachos + a mean margarita!
Golden BOY Pizza
Incredible square pie in one of our most vibrant neighborhoods, North Beach!
Little Sweet
Our favorite boba in the city, Callie’s favorite is the Mango Strawberry Sago & Elijah’s is the Black Sugar Fresh Milk Boba.
For those who want to support our next chapter, please visit our registry on Zola.
What date should I RSVP by?
Please RSVP by 11/11/2026
What should I wear? What is the dress code?
We ask our guests to wear formal attire. Suits and long or midi-length dresses are encouraged. Above all, choose something that feels comfortable, elevated, and true to you.
What time should I arrive for the ceremony?
Our ceremony begins promptly at 2:45pm. Guests are invited to arrive from 2:15pm on to enjoy a welcome drink and settle in before the ceremony begins.
What time does the reception end? Last song ends at 9pm.
Are the ceremony and reception in the same location?
Although the chapel and reception venue have different addresses, they’re just 500 feet apart. The reception is a short 2-minute downhill walk or 1-minute drive from the chapel. Golf carts will be available to help guests who prefer a ride to the reception.
What will the weather be like?
You never quite know what San Francisco has in store! We recommend bringing a jacket or light layer, especially for the evening. Don’t worry about carrying it around, the venue has a coat check!
Is the ceremony outside?
The ceremony and reception will be held indoors, while cocktail hour will offer indoor and outdoor spaces, weather permitting.
Have a question on the day of the wedding?
Please text Leslie, (mother of the bride) at (415)609-6949 if you need to reach the couple the day of the wedding. We kindly ask that you take a quick look through the FAQs first, as we may have already answered your question there.
Have a question we haven’t answered?
Send us an email at wedding@elijahandcallie.com and we will get back to you promptly.